broke up over break up 4 months ago
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| Fri, 07-07-2006 - 1:47pm |
I broke up with a man that I lived with for 22 months. He is 16 years younger than I am and bi-sexual. One of the reasons why we split was because he said his family accepted that he was bi. I accepted that he was bi, but I wanted a monogamous relationship which of course meant no guys and no gals either. His family and friends kept bringin up his ex to the point that he was swimming in depression, and his ex ( who is living with another man), even came to visit him for sex.
I guess I am most upset that his family didn't accept that he was living with a woman and couldn't deal with the changes they saw in him.
The worst thing is that he and I got along really well, and I love him. An old friend of my deceased husband was floored when I gave this man a couple of CD's and asked me: "Why did you give Mike Bloomfields Super Session to 'that' guy". Dave and I have been friends since I was 19 years old and I don't deny I had feelings for him, so when my ex came into my life Dave became concerned because he was moved from first to second within a few months.
Now that we have broken up, my ex is trying to set me up with one of his old buddies.
The other problem is that Dave is coming to California for a visit this week and he told me he is definetly remembering my phone number. I don't know if I still have a spark for Dave. I am totally confused about my old new relationship.
At least I will be getting a much needed hug from an old shoe who knows my ups and downs and was one of my best support systems for nearly 40 years.
YIKES!! Advice to anyone out there who wants to get involved with a bi-guy. Don't do it, especially if you have a problem with women falling all over your man, because now you have two problems men and women falling all over your man.
