Broken up AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN

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Registered: 04-21-2005
Broken up AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN
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Sat, 10-20-2007 - 4:07am

Hello Ladies,


I have been braking up with

Aly

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Registered: 03-28-2006
Sat, 10-20-2007 - 7:27am

Im sorry and I understand what your feeling. I wish there was a magic potion to take away the pain for each of us, but there isnt...theres only time, patience and strength.


Take if from someones whos been there and still is .....GET OFF THE RIDE and STAY OFF!! Thats the best advice I have for you, becaue that ride will keep going around and around as long as you keep hitting the start up button again and again...


It sounds as if this man cant make a committment to you and maybe hes got issues with committment. Trust me that sometimes all the space in the world wont fix it. I found that the space only told him he could take it and then come back and start up the ride again and I would still be there.

 

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 2:02pm

Hi flamily,


Here's your previous post for others to 'catch up' on the story - Devastated and Hurt


It normal to want to believe someone that is saying what we want to hear (lip service, sorry) but if you KNOW really know that his words are not matching his behavior, then it's time to set boundaries for yourself, for

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Registered: 03-19-2004
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 4:32pm

I was also in an off/on again relationship, it took the 4th breakup to finally end it for good.

Anna

 

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Registered: 06-08-2006
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 7:31pm

Take back your power in this situation and decide what you want.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-15-2005
Mon, 10-22-2007 - 7:56pm

I hear you, I've been thru the same things you're going thru right now.

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Registered: 04-21-2005
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 12:41am

Hi Karina,


Thank you so much for the invitation to join you and your circle of friends. My son and I would love to get to meet you and do things with our kids. I'm also a single mother (of one as you might have read from my previous postings) and so far, he's been a good kid. Today is his birthday and he and I celebrated together. Yesterday, we celebrated with friends and family and he forgot all about my ex my not being there. It was a sad day for me because the realization that we are no longer a family hit me. Especially when we were discussing the upcoming holidays, nonetheless, my son had a great time.


You may reach me at my email address belle_aly@yahoo.com if you'd like to hang out someday. Hope to hear from you.

Aly