Broken up but not over
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Broken up but not over
| Fri, 01-14-2005 - 9:31pm |
I broke up with my boyfriend of almost three years right before New Year's. To make a long story short, he had a lot of personal and family issues that he needs to deal with before he can commit himself to a serious relationship. For the past year or so, these issues have taken up much of his time and he does not know how to deal with them, so often I got pushed aside or ignored while he tried to deal with them. I got fed up with his behavior and also realized that him being with me isn't helping at all.
Well anyways, a few days after the breakup I went away for a week and had a great time (a lil vaca fling) and seemed to forget about him and I actually felt that I was ok with the break up and everything. HOwever, this past week I was home and waiting for the spring school semester to start. We have talked a few times and both realize we still care deeply for each other. I still feel that the timing is off and he needs to work alone for a while, but he wants to get back together.
I have been seriously torn up with my heart telling me that to get back with him and I can help him, but my head is telling me that I do deserve better than he can give me right now and that I should forget about him for the time being. However, I am totally stuck and I am almost constantly stopping myself from calling him.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I should be doing (either with him or to keep myself sure of what i want to do)? Please help me!! Please!
Christine
Well anyways, a few days after the breakup I went away for a week and had a great time (a lil vaca fling) and seemed to forget about him and I actually felt that I was ok with the break up and everything. HOwever, this past week I was home and waiting for the spring school semester to start. We have talked a few times and both realize we still care deeply for each other. I still feel that the timing is off and he needs to work alone for a while, but he wants to get back together.
I have been seriously torn up with my heart telling me that to get back with him and I can help him, but my head is telling me that I do deserve better than he can give me right now and that I should forget about him for the time being. However, I am totally stuck and I am almost constantly stopping myself from calling him.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I should be doing (either with him or to keep myself sure of what i want to do)? Please help me!! Please!
Christine
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| Fri, 01-14-2005 - 11:00pm |
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