Broken up but still living together
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Broken up but still living together
| Tue, 02-27-2007 - 3:57pm |
My boyfriend of 15 months recently told me that his feelings for me had changed. We are no longer dating but he tells everyone, "if it's meant to be it's meant to be and we'll get back together." He told his mom that he thinks we will get back together. Anyway, we knew eachother before we started dating and moved in together less than a month after we started dating. Everything was perfect. We didn't fight, we have tons in common, we trust eachother, his family loves me and my family loves him...everything you could ask for in a relationship. Then he sprang this on me. I think it was a combination of money and influence of other people. Anyway, we still live together and do things as a couple (like go out with other couples...including his parents and hang out in public)...even though we are "just friends." Does anyone else besides me think this is odd? I've seen him in past breakups and he normally avoids the ex like the plague. But it's almost like nothing has changed except we don't have the title of boyfriend and girlfriend. I want to get back together with him but I don't want to bring it up because I don't want him to feel like I am pushing him or anything like that. Can someone please help me or try to help me understand???


Hi tanya and welcome to the board.
Hi girl..
Damn ur story is soooooooo the same as mine!i cant belive!except we were together 4 years..2 years living together and then out of nowhere..he just told me he dont want no more! practicly on valentines day!we didnt even fight !nothing!he is love of mine life and he expect me to live together and watch him every day breaking my heart..but if i dont pretend im fine he will leave..in one f..g day everything changed..i m so confused..he dont even give me 2nd chance..i havent done anything..he just said it just doesnt go and he was just pretending..im so hurt i cannot think..so i just can tell u u are lucky one ..he atleast gave u a chance!mine gave me no hope..but how can i live if i dont hope..i always will.. but i have to stop somehow..hoooooooowwww????