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| Tue, 03-13-2007 - 12:56pm |
I hope this is the right board to come to. My b/f had a one night stand which i learned about a few months later. I immediately broke up with him- we had been together over 2 years.
We have gone thru this breakkup together. We are in college, so although we continued to speak, we only saw each other a few times since it happened. Trying to give space, without totally moving on. Both of us are so hurt- he is remorseful for his actions, and I believe that. But I can't seem to "forgive/forget" after 3 months. He has not given up in 3 months on trying to win me back. He has offered me all the time i need, and I am trying hard because I don't want to regret my decision. We talk everyday, do keep in touch and we do see each other every few weeks. I miss our relationship- but i don't know how to get past this and allow him back in my life.
does anyone have any advice on how to move ahead- when you think you want to? Or at least how to move ahead so you can see IF you want to.....I have a feeling deep down, I don't want to lose him. I want to make this work

Hi lovegrl18 and welcome to the board....
Most couples are unable to overcome betrayal, cheating and rebuilding trust on their own.