Brokenhearted and confused

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Registered: 03-13-2007
Brokenhearted and confused
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Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:49pm

Hello all.....My ex boyfriend and I were dating for almost 7 months. We started the relationship pretty fast but I started falling for him deeply. I mean he was everything i wanted in a man (own place, funny, christian, a good job, clean cut). We had a lot in common and I told him that I been many times before. He told me he has too. We used to pray to keep or relationship strong. Then Last month things started to change. I asked him to go to a country music concert with me and he said no because thats not what he is into. I told him that he never compromises with me on things i want to do. He was never the type to argue. When i get depressed I would tell him my problems and he would always try to encourage me. Anyway last month in february he started acting real funny with me. I saw that he was angry with me but never told me. On valentines day he didnt even call so I had to spend valentines day alone. The day after Valentines day I called him to see how he was doing. I asked him why he was acting so strange towards me. He tells me that he doesnt want a relationship with me anymore because I complain too much, I get mad over small things, and im too conceited. I asked him why he never told me this before. So the next day at church I asked him if we could just be friends and he said thats cool. But now when i see him at church he doesnt speak to me at all. I feel betrayed and sometimes i want to call him sooooo bad but my family and friends tells me not to. I just want to move on with my life but its hard because I think about him all the time.

Then my birthday was feb 17. before we broke up we made plans to go to chicago to shop. I asked him if we was still on for that day and he said no he has other things to do. He also didnt call me on my birthday.

Do yall think it was my fault that he broke up with me?

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 03-15-2007 - 12:35pm

There's always reasons on both sides why people breakup, always.

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