to call or not to call?
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| Mon, 08-15-2005 - 10:19am |
just some advice needed here:
to recap: my ex/bf.. most likely soon to be ex.. whatever you want to call him told me a week ago he needs a break and is taking 2 weeks to think. well aside from an email i sent him right after telling him how i felt.. i havent contacted him once- and i actually feel pretty good about the NC and im not really having many urges to call him- mainly cause i sent him that email i guess and realize that theres nothing i can say now to change his mind, so now all contacting him will do is piss him off. that being said- just to clarify cause several of my friends think this- this is not an excuse to call him!.... but hes going out to his family's lake house this weekend for his cousins wedding. we went down there a few months ago and i left a really important ring there that was given to me as a gift from a family member. back then when we realized that, he said when he went down for the wedding, he'd pick it up for me and bring it back. well this weekend will still be in the 2 week period that were not supposed to talk, and since i broke that once- i really dont want to break it again. but also- hes a guy- hes probably forgotten that its out there and he wont be going back out for months- and if his final verdict ends up being that he wants tobreak up with me, i certainly WANT my ring back now. now that i type this- i realize that its fair for me to contact- but how should i go about it, and is the phone the best way to do it? also- since he is taking a 2 week break, i have no idea how he is actually feeling for me at the moment so i dont know if he would delete it without reading/hearing what i have to say- any ideas how to approach this?
thanks :)

Just my opinion
Phone is a last resort. Id start with a text message, or an email..
Voices tend to be much harder.