Can someone figure this out?
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Can someone figure this out?
| Fri, 02-23-2007 - 3:56pm |
Regarding my previous post "I've Been here Before", can someone explain this to me? I wrote in my post that I was blindsided by this. Yes of course we had things to discuss but I didn't expect him to just drop me instead of talking about our issues. In fact he sent me flowers for Valentine's Day, and the card read "Hi baby, happy valentine's day. I love you and I miss you. I'll see you soon. Love, him" He sent these flowers to me at my workplace while he was away. Can someone tell me how it is he sends me these flowers with this lovely card, and then breaks up with me a whole two days later???????

Honestly, no one can explain it, probably not even him.
I think everyone on this board who was the one being broke up with was "blindsided" I know I was. I still look back and feel a little blindsided (my break-up was 10 months ago).
One thing I learned was that closure has to come from yourself, you can't expect him to give that to you.
Moving on is hard, realizing that life does go on, that it's okay to live without him is rough, but you can make it through this.
~Amber
Hi Axo - I actually asked my ex this very question. Exactly one week after we agreed that it was time for me to get pregnant, he broke up with me. I asked him how he could do that (switch overnight) and he said he knew it didn't make sense/he thought things were going to work out but it just became apparent they were not.
I agree that sometimes people may not know their own minds 100% causing them to say/do things that they don't therefore 100% mean. Unfortunately, that results in hurt to another person (us). The only thing that is positive about this is that you know its not YOU - its his own issues/problems/confusion. Hope that helped a little.