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| Mon, 09-20-2004 - 9:52am |
has anyone out there ever been in this situation:
boyfriend cheats-boyfriend lies about the type of relationship he's had w/the woman-boyfirend says that he still loves/misses you very deeply but he still wants to see/have sex w/the other woman as well as continue to have sex w/you.
boyfriend cheats-boyfriend lies about the type of relationship he's had w/the woman-boyfirend says that he still loves/misses you very deeply but he still wants to see/have sex w/the other woman as well as continue to have sex w/you.
so, what did you do-did you continue to see/sleep w/boyfriend or did you cut off all ties?
please help me, desperately confused.

My advice to you is that any man who expects you to put up with his sleeping with another woman probably doesn't love and/or respect you enough. I myself couldn't put up with it for more than a minute.
On the other hand, some women can do it. If you love him enough, if you can live with sharing him, then by all means. I think women who can put up with cheating are pretty rare though. Only you know what you can put up with.
It will hurt like hell, but the pain will NOT KILL YOU. I promise you. I've been there more times than I care to mention ... We're here for you. We'll hold your hand, offer you a shoulder to cry on and see you through the rough part.
The good news is that at the end of the road you can feel proud of yourself and you'll have your self-respect intact. If you stay with him you probably wouldn't be happy for long ...