Can't Believe How Hard It Still Is....

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Registered: 01-06-2008
Can't Believe How Hard It Still Is....
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Mon, 01-14-2008 - 6:59am

Hi there everyone... I'm pretty new here and have only posted once of a breakup with

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Registered: 02-07-2007
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 8:37am

This is the difference between men and women-when men break up, they stand by their decision and they hardly relent. When women break up, emotions get involve and we always wonder if we did the right thing.


I think you need to revisit why you even broke up with him in the first place and ask yourself if that overweighs all of these emotions that you are currently feeling. Make a decision that you know that you won't regret (as much) because every decision seems wrong at this point.


Whatever happens-don't make a decision because you feel lonely and he'll be a nice add on to making your life secure. Once you have decided, stick to your decision and try not to let your emotions get your better half.


Good luck!!


Nina

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 01-14-2008 - 4:06pm

Hi genuine33,


It's hard when they are contacting you, especially with gifts.