Can't wash him out of my hair...

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2008
Can't wash him out of my hair...
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 9:32pm

Hello everyone. First time post but I've been reading for a while. I know that so many of us are hurting and I am so glad this exists so we are not alone! I do have a rather unique situation with my ex (I hate that I know use that title but anyways). I am so trying to do the no contact. I know it will be best for me. I know that he does not want to speak to me. However, he is on a reality show right now! I no longer watch that TV channel, I no longer check the websites (I can't believe I haven't done that in 3 days but am so proud that I have) but then it turns out he is in a magazine! Besides the break-up crap, how do I do this?! I want to put him out of my mind and wash him out of my hair but the second I decide to do that, something else literally pops up in my face- not just to remind me of him, but him!!

I know this is a long shot but does anybody have any experience like this? I am trying so hard to keep busy, stay focused, learn from this but all this exposure is so trying to me. Does anybody have any ideas?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2008
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 9:52pm

I remember this time of my breakup.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:01pm

Welcome to the board swallens,


You embrace each incident as a way to re-affirm that while you may have to 'see' him, you don't have to talk to him.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 1:00am

I have a project for you:

Every time you see his picture or whatnot, print it out, draw this huge black 'X' through it and then set it on fire.

Bet that'll make you feel better after a couple of times. You may not even need to do it more than that.

Good luck!

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