Cheated with numorous women I'm HURT!
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Cheated with numorous women I'm HURT!
| Wed, 08-31-2005 - 2:06pm |
I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me with alot of women. I had a gut feeling awhile ago but i didn't want to accuse until I was sure, about 2 weeks ago i found out the password to his email and also to his voicemail. I found out that he's been going on online porn sites, not only that he has a ton of porno flicks. I checked his voicemail and it was like women leaving messages saying "I was calling to see if you were coming over tonight". one girl asked if he could bring her some money. The other women just left messages telling him to call them. So one night I was over his house and we had relations I busted out crying cause i loved him so much but yet I knew so much dirt on him. The next morning I stared at him and strted crying and told him how I felt He told me that he apologized for the things I went through and lets try to work it out, so I said ok well tell me the truth about the things I am about to ask .I asked him about the porn he admitted that he go on porn sites just to be doing something (ok fine). So I asked him about a partcular girl that he was suppose to meet up with that same night I was over his house the same night i busted out crying ( he didn't know that I knew about that). He got mad and said " you know what You are going to always find something wrong ,and I don't think this going to work and told me not to call him anymore. And I didn't and I mst say I am maintaining ok its been about a week. A friend of his that hangs around my mothers way told me that he said that the girl that I asked him about was his godsister (yeah right!!!!) Why is he saying all of this after the fact ( remember he dumped me but in all actually he was busted and he had to end it). I am DONE! but why is he telling lies about the girl being his godsister who cares and he shouldn't either cause he was suppose to be the one that so-called dumped me!! What is the point for all of this (why don't he just let it go) ( We were in engaged I guess he thought that 1.6 canary yellow diamond was going to make me stay) (sorry!)

My (ex)boyfriend and I of 3 years took a "break" about 3 months ago. We still saw each other about once a week and we still talked every day. Well, one night I couldn't get in touch with him, I'd left him numerous messages, and it was important that I talk to him. I've known his voicemail password for years but have never used it before. I checked his voicemail, in the concerns of knowing whether he had gotten my messages or not, and heard a girl's voice telling him to just call her later. That she had went ahead to Buford since he never called her. Or something like that.
I confronted him about it and all he did was get mad that I had checked his voicemail and say that other people had been using his phone all day that it was probably a message for one of them.
Yeah, whatever. He was my best friend and I'm feeling lost without him to talk to but I know I'm doing the right thing by letting him be. We haven't spoken in two weeks.