check the below if your ready

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Registered: 04-26-2004
check the below if your ready
Tue, 12-20-2005 - 1:13pm

Hi,

I just put a post below to ones who are mending and I wrote how I dont pretend to be all knowing or people should take my advice. I just write what seems to work for me thats all and its good to hear others. Why am I writing this here? well, when I was newly split I said to myself how I wanted it to be over where I move on and forget all about him but I also had a hope of him coming back. If you have that hope then pretending you want it done wont work..the advice wont work. You have to want to move on. thats ok if you are nto ready. I wasnt for awhile. However, if you truly feel its time and its over and its better for you then check out what we wrote below and maye it will help.

its like your all world comes tumbling down when we lose someone like that. Work, your home, your daily routines, like it doesnt matter anymore. But yet, they are just one person in it..but yet its like they are everything and it really shouldnt be that way.