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is this childish?
| Sun, 10-07-2007 - 1:02am |
My ex and I broke up about a month ago and we have to work together on the weekends.. We were together for 3 years.
| Sun, 10-07-2007 - 1:02am |
My ex and I broke up about a month ago and we have to work together on the weekends.. We were together for 3 years.
I always see a red flag when a guy does a 180. You broke up and now he's trying to be all nice to you, hmmm...
I have always had a problem with men. Always will. I spent my entire teenage and early adult life being every guy's 2nd (or 3rd or 4th or 5th, you get it) choice. I was always the "rebound girl" or the "subsitute". So a lot of times, I assume things and I never ever give men the benefit of the doubt.
But it's extremely fishy when a guy breaks your heart and then all of a sudden tries to be nice to you. I've been there, done that.
I've been used by a guy, then they got their ex back and cut it off with me. Then lo and behold a few months later "Hey Teddy, what's up? How you been? How's it going?!"
I don't think so.
Too bad we aren't as dumb as they think we are.
Sometimes, I guess there just aren't enough rocks...
Sometimes, I guess there just aren't enough rocks...
Hi skittlesrock,
It's hard to have normal conversation when you aren't fully healed yet and he's acting like it's no big deal.
You might find this helpful:
Handling Breakups at Work
Thanks for posting the links to my posts!
Good for you! We're pretty proud of you too. It's fantastic when someone keeps it together as per advice.
I don't think it was childish at all. As your friend, he needs to know when to respect your need for time alone. And unfortunately he doesn't seem to be getting it. --''. Cordial, distant, and happy, my rule of thumb.