Clueless on what to do...
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| Sun, 06-17-2007 - 10:32pm |
Ok, I'm sure this is going to be long, so I apologize ahead of time. I don't even know if I'm posting in the right section. Anyways, here's my situation...
In April, I left my husband of 4 years. I immediately started seeing the guy I'm with now, who is going through a divorce as well. This was only supposed to be a rebound relationship, but now I find myself falling for him after only 2 months. Things were going pretty good, up until 2 weeks ago. We had a "date night" on June 2nd and it was one of those amazing nights. When we got up the next morning, we both had voicemails on our cells from his wife. She had gotten arrested at some point in time that night. So, he dropped me off at home so he could go handle that. I called him the next day(Monday); he didn't answer, didn't return my call. Same thing happened on Tuesday. I called him on Wednesday and he answered. We talked for about 5 minutes and it was a really strained conversation.
Things start to get better after that, almost back to normal. Had lunch with him this past Wednesday and things seemed fine. When I called him on Thursday, he was back to acting moody. I call him on Friday; he doesn't answer his phone, doesn't call me back. And the cycle repeats itself. So now I'm thinking he's ending things and being the biggest jerk he can be about it. It doesn't make sense, because we didn't get into a fight or anything like that.
I know we haven't been together that long, but I could really see myself with him long term. I know that may sound stupid, given the situation with the both of us still technically married. I'm just clueless on if he's ending it, and if he's not, why is he acting the way he is. And why am I putting up with it? Sorry...I'm a mess... :)

Welcome to the board jesskes,
My guess is that something happened with is wife when he 'rescued' her and he's having doubts and/or second thoughts.