Completely Broken-Hearted, Please Help.

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Registered: 10-22-2007
Completely Broken-Hearted, Please Help.
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Mon, 10-22-2007 - 10:35pm

Hi... this is my first post, and I know maybe I should try to respond to other topics before creating one, but I'm so thoroughly confused about my very recent break up, and the relationship

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 12:24am

Welcome to the board teufelkatze,


I'm not sure I even know where to start....First, you don't have to post advice before posting your story, but feel free to stick around and help a few other people too.


I can't decide what's more wrong with your relationship - anger management issues, miscommunication, unclear expectations....


So some things to read and think about:


Ten Tips for Managing Anger

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Registered: 10-22-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 12:59am

Thanks for the links, I'm trying to find anything that can help me try to sort this out right now.


I'm going on day 4 of no contact, and it's getting to be very hard. I see him at work here and there throughout the day, and today was the first day he was back at work after his trip. I nearly

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 1:44am
Here's an idea.... take some time to journal write - write about what you think you need from him in one conversation.