Confronting my EX
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Confronting my EX
| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 4:39pm |
I have this urge to break my NO CONTACT and confront him on whether or not he's dating someone from his work. Should I?
I've been doing so well mentally and not calling but all of a sudden, I want to know! I don't even know if I care as much as I would've last week but I just want to know....
Help! I know I shouldn't so please convince me to not call....

Hi mishmosh,
I want you to try something.
The thing is, if his answer is yes, then I'll have a reason for him to not want me in his life anymore and will know why he has chosen to not talk to me anymore when before, he would always give in a call me telling me he missed me. If the answer is no, than I will feel like I have done something wrong or that there is something personally wrong with me giving him a reason to not want anything to do with me anymore.
Isn't that always one of the main reasons ex's want out or nothing to do with their ex? Because they have found someone new to be interested in?
People don't practice No Contact just because they are seeing someoen else or because you have done something wrong.
::Isn't that always one of the main reasons ex's want out or nothing to do with their ex? Because they have found someone new to be interested in?
No, it's not been my reason.
OH MY GOD!!!!! Whenever I get these urges, I draft up a text message on my phone and just save it to my drafts and then wait a couple of hours and then I just delete it and I usually feel better and good about not sending it well this time....IT GOT SENT!!!! I feel really stupid now. I was going to delete it and instead I hit send! OH crap, now I'm all shaky and nervouse. It said, "So are you dating that girl from work? I have a feeling you are. I don't care but I just want to prove to myself that I was right all along. You don't need to respond."
This is bad! Please help!