Connected with him one last time...

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Registered: 02-23-2008
Connected with him one last time...
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:07pm

So I really needed to ask him a few last questions to give myself some closure.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:36pm

::Is this normal to feel the anxiety and shake...its a horrible feeeling that I just can't rid.

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Registered: 11-18-2005
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:16pm
I have been in your shoes, I was with someone for five years and he was just as insensitive and defensive as your ex sounds. It used to annoy me when people would say this to me, but give it time. Soon enough you will feel less anxious and shaky and sleeping will become much easier. I still missed him after he blew me off, by the way he never officially broke up with me, he just never called me again.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:24pm

It's totally normal to be sad, even when your ex is behaving like a jerk and you "know" (intellectually) that you're better off without him.