contact has sent me backwards again

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2007
contact has sent me backwards again
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Thu, 05-03-2007 - 11:33am

Hey

if you read my last post you'll see i briefly contacted the ex in relation to geting my stuff back. I felt strong enough to do this at the time but later on that day and ever since, the jolt of hearing from him again (even if it was one line in an email) as made me a bit of a wreck again and i cant stop crying.

It had been well over a month NC and i was was generally feeling stronger. Im glad im getting my stuff back now but i just wanna get over this pain again im just afraid ive made things even harder.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-24-2003
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 11:53am

Don't be hard on yourself--this is all part of the healing process. Just take a deep breath, move forward, and stick to "no contact."

This too shall pass!