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| Fri, 08-03-2007 - 2:12am |
Well i have been doing really well.
i felt really good. he called me today. Im not really sure why. but he did and we were having an ok conversation. I was in a really good place today.
Then he throws in there, 'the more time we spend apart, the more i dont want to be with you.'
He calls me to just bring me down! to make sure im feeling bad.
I called him back to ask him why hes letting 9 years go down the drain and why he cant look me in the eye in person like a man to tell me its over.
I found out its because he has a crutch. he is seeing somebody else. a somebody that is my complete opposite and just getting out of a two year relationship. i am infuriated!! he is so happy because the begining of a relationship feels good and he is not giving me a dignified goodbye.
this is ridiculous
i felt really good. he called me today. Im not really sure why. but he did and we were having an ok conversation. I was in a really good place today.
Then he throws in there, 'the more time we spend apart, the more i dont want to be with you.'
He calls me to just bring me down! to make sure im feeling bad.
I called him back to ask him why hes letting 9 years go down the drain and why he cant look me in the eye in person like a man to tell me its over.
I found out its because he has a crutch. he is seeing somebody else. a somebody that is my complete opposite and just getting out of a two year relationship. i am infuriated!! he is so happy because the begining of a relationship feels good and he is not giving me a dignified goodbye.
this is ridiculous

Do NOT talk to him anymore. If he calls, don't answer, if he emails, hit delete. You gave him an opportunity for a respectful and considerate end to your relationship, and instead he made you feel worse. EVEN IF weeks, months or years from now his conscience catches up with him , and he realizes that he owed you a little better, it's too late - there's only so much pain you can allow someone to put you through and he reached his limit when he couldn't look you in the eye, explain that things had changed and he was no longer invested in the relationship the way he felt he should be, thank you for the wonderful years, and then leave you in peace and allow you to heal.
He's made sure to find ways (a person?) to make this all easier for HIM, you need to make sure you find ways to make this easier for YOU.