cultivating Diane for a while
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| Wed, 11-21-2007 - 10:54am |
I just broke up with my beau in September. Our break-up was initially cordial until he began stalking me. He showed up at my place a couple times and sent me nasty e-mails. The second time he came around I had to call the cops and put out a protective order because he was threatening me. Luckily, I am blessed to have awesome friends, an incredible job and wonderful family. I also am so overjoyed to have him out of my life! I cannot believe I went to court for the protective order alone and without flinching, was able to face him. I feel pretty darn kick arse!
Because of my newfound singlehood and sense of power, I am attracting a lot of men eager to date me and pals that want to fix me up. It feels wonderful and very scary. I went out on two dates, but was super uncomfortable. I have no interest in dating at all. Not even casually. I was living with a controlling sad sack for over a year and now that I am free, I want to truly discover who I am and what I like. I went through this before when I first started dating my now ex. I had just broken-up with someone, and went right into another relationship. What I need is advice and support on how to cultivate a boy-free life for a while. I am trying, but it is really hard. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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Welcome to the board kickitbaby,
If you aren't ready to date, no one says you have to.
Good for you.
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Hi yankee,
I don't
You dont remember my story because I have not posted it here.
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