Dating Soon-to-be Ex-husband
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Dating Soon-to-be Ex-husband
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 9:34pm |
My husband and I have been separated for about a year and the divorce should be coming through within a matter of weeks. We just could not live together happily, though we both tried. However, we miss each other and I had agreed to go visit him in his new home which is in another state. He was so looking forward to it. But then I thought about it and it seemed like a bad idea. My family would disown me; my friends would think I failed to be strong; and I would feel like I'm not getting on with my life. Yet, changing my mind about going has hurt him so much. I feel so sorry for his sadness. But perhaps it is better for him not to get mixed messages so that he can get on with his life. Somehow, it just does not seem right to date other people and yet dating him does not seem right either. I just can't deal with the emotional turmoil involved in living with him. (It's a long story.) I'm too old-fashioned to just have uncommitted sex with him. Am I nuts?
