Day 1- 60 day No Contact

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Registered: 03-15-2007
Day 1- 60 day No Contact
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Sun, 03-25-2007 - 12:31pm

For those of you who recommended "It's a breakup because it's broken"...THANK YOU! It definatly has helped. On Monday he and I had a HUGE blow out arguement which ended in him yelling at me and SCOLDING ME, about how I am reacting to the break up....whatever....so anyways, I got the book, and have been reading it for the past 3 days, and it's helping. I decided that I really need to do no contact and that means no Myspace, IM, or email. SOO I already deleated him from my phone, so I don't have his number, and I erased my Myspace profile this morning and took him off of my IM. I sent him a final email telling him I can't be friends with someone who is going to treat me so poorly and disrespect my feelings and opinions. So we shall see, tomorrow is going to be the official day one of no contact. To make myself feel better by looking forward to something, I also booked a vacation this summer...I leave on his birthday- not on purpose, but coincidence since that was the week my cousin told me she was free.

For those of you who are really struggling with No contact like me, seriously just erase anyway that you could contact him....What I did was put the numbers, screen name and everything into a word file, so that if I do decide that I want to contact him in the future, I still have his information, but for now....out of sight, out of mind.

Hope this helps!!! Hugs to all!

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Registered: 07-11-2006
Sun, 03-25-2007 - 12:42pm
I'm fairly new to this board, but I'm happy you are doing better. I'll have to check out that book myself. I have deleted everything that would make it easy for me to contact him off of my computer, or any emails, pictures, I also deleted his number off of my phone. The problem is, I know all of that stuff by heart. I wish I could have my memories of him erased like that movie "Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind."