Day 13 of NC

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Day 13 of NC
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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 1:36pm

Hi everyone,

I haven't written in a few days, so I just wanted to check in and say hi to everyone. I'm hanging in there, I still have my rough days/rough times but I seem to feel like i'm accepting what happened now and more able to try to move on. I'm just spending lots of time with friends and keeping busy. I have to get back to the gym, even if it's not that one i've been avoiding because we both go to it. My new job has a fitness room so maybe i'll take advantage of that. Anyway, remember he said "I promise to call you towards the end of the month?" well, no calls whatsoever and you know what? Part of me actually hopes he doesn't call. I think talking to him will only set me back now. It's day 13 of NC for me, and i'm glad i've been able to keep it up. Thanks to you guys for all your help and for always being here to listen.

Jacki

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-20-2005
In reply to: jacki_83176
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 3:46pm
It's been 10 days NC with my ex. We were friends for 3 years, then dated for 3 years. And in all that time I have never gone this long without seeing him (it's actually been 3 weeks since I saw him last) or talking to him. It's tough but I'm also getting to the point where I hope he doesn't call. Last time I talked to him he said "I'll call you back later and we can finish talking about this". He never did and the longer he waits, the more angry/upset I get and the easier it is to move on from him. One of our mutual friends told me this morning to just give it time and when he's ready to talk to me, he will call. Now I've just got to decide if I want to talk to him or not. I miss him being in my life but I don't know if I can be friends with him again. Good luck with your situation and keep up the NC rule. I really think it's best for all of us.
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