Day 7 / so lonely for him
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| Mon, 11-14-2005 - 9:54am |
7 days of no contact. I'm certain he won't contact me, its not his style. I am trying to be tough and not contact him either. I still carry around my top 10 list of reasons of why I wanted this break but the thoughts of how wonderful it was in the beginning keep haunting me. I am grieving the loss of the man I fell in love with.
My real problem is that we still have legal issues that have to be resolved. Nothing serious but we have to exchange property titles and sign some papers. I was supposed to see him on Thursday but I think I will send him a TM and put if off a couple of more weeks. I'm afraid I will make a fool of myself if I see him again. I keep day dreaming about being friends with him again, even lovers.
He may not even want to see me so this whole thing might be moot. Technically we could do this through attornies but that would just be an added pain in the neck. I don't know if I would be happy he made the decision for me, (the n/c decision), or if I would be insulted that I'm not even good enough for a civil conversation anymore.
Thoughts? Advice?

Hi Michelle,
I'm sorry you're feeling lonely.
michele08053...
Pianoguy suggests you handle "your legal issues" by way of a person who is experienced in these matters (aka your attorney and his attorney).
This way the 2 of you can make a CLEAN BREAK without the risk of getting 'emotionally uckkky!'
Pianoguy