Dealing with no explanation

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Registered: 04-05-2003
Dealing with no explanation
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Wed, 03-30-2005 - 9:19am

I'm still hanging in there. I guess the thing I'm having the most difficulty with is that we didn't talk about what was going wrong, so I got no type of resolution. He just became increasingly distant and indifferent toward me and kept blowing off plans with me at the last minute.

After the last blow off, I decided that was it and I needed to let go, starting with strict no contact. I know I have to reconcile that I'm never going to know exactly what he was thinking and feeling in the days leading up to this.

I know at one time he loved me very much and to have him treat me this way now hurts like hell, but ending things was for the best.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 6:32pm

Oooh, I love the illogical reasons for not being around!

 

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