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Fri, 06-15-2007 - 12:42am

the past is in the past

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2007
In reply to: bacilosfan
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 8:01am
Don't do it....go out on the high road. Maybe some day when he grows up, he will look back and think how well you handled yourself...and maybe he even thinks you don't care that much becuase you didn't tell him off. Don't give him the satisfaction- let him think you have moved on and don't give a care in the world about him. And remember this- what goes around, comes around. So he'll get his and you'll get your wish in the end!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2007
In reply to: bacilosfan
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 9:17am
Based on my experience with my bf breaking up w/me on an email....I would just say to let it go. I tried to contact him by email after he sent the "break-up email" with no response. It just made me feel worse. But I tell you I feel exactly the same way you do about your bf. Good Luck!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-02-2007
In reply to: bacilosfan
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 11:21am
Don't do it, he is not worth it. Write what you want to tell him on a piece of paper, then burn it and let it go. Don't stoop to his level. You will be the better person.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-05-2006
In reply to: bacilosfan
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 1:25pm

As hard as it is to do, you really do need to let it go. Show him you are the adult and his remarks about you don't bother you. My ex did the disappearing act on me a year ago and I wanted so many times to write to him (the dude doesn't own a computer so email wasn't an option) and give him a piece of my mind but that wouldn't solve anything so I wrote my feeling down on paper and then trashed the letter. I would suggest doing the same thing.

Good Luck!

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: bacilosfan
Fri, 06-15-2007 - 5:14pm

Welcome to the board bacilosfan,


I agree, let it go. If you send it, it will only escalate.