Deserted

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Deserted
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Sun, 01-16-2005 - 8:44am
My boyfriend has just broken up with me by ignoring me, not calling me back, not answering my text messages... we're on holidays right now so i can't see him, and ask for an explanation. It hurts so much and leaves me so confused, did it ever happen to one of you ? how did you deal ? at the end of the holidays we'll have to see each other again as we have english class together in college (i live in france), what do you think i should do then ? confront him ? just forget all about him ? i feel so sad, thanks for your help.
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Registered: 08-31-2004
In reply to: laury_smile
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 9:07am

In my opinion I would just severe any contact with this jerk and try to avoid speaking to him after the holidays.If he tries to speak to you I would honestly tell him how angry I feel at his childish behaviour .

If he DOES ask you out again I would think twice before dating him after all the pain he has put you through . In my opinon this guy is an immature loser and you deserve much better than that..you deserve someone who respects you !!!

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Registered: 01-24-2004
In reply to: laury_smile
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 12:20pm

Laury,

It's all about respect Laury. STOP calling him. If he doesn't respect you enough to BE A MAN and have the courtesy to be straight with you about breaking up, then that man shouldn't even be with you...or any woman for that matter. He's a WIMP. Do you need that type of person in your life? You enjoy your holiday. Stop worrying about him. When holidays are over, don't talk to him. Wait until he talks to you. If you're desperate for an answer, then confront him about it. Otherwise, drop the loser and move on with your life.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Good Luck Honey.

Nina
PS: Has it ever occured to you that perhaps he's stuck on a mountain with no cell phones and email abilities?

PSS: I think that's about the best "breakup" I've heard thus far. That and a post-it.

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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: laury_smile
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 12:32pm
I'm sorry that you're going through this.
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