did he break up with me?
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did he break up with me?
| Thu, 08-12-2004 - 2:15pm |
My boyfriend of 3 years, with whom I have been long distance for last year, has been telling me lately so many things, I dont know what to believe anymore. For once, he had an interest in another woman who he dated for a few weeks. The he told me he can not replace me with anyone, and its not working out with her and he will slowly stop dating with her because she a coworker so he can't do it suddenly. Then he went into great details how we will get back to the relationship we had, and he always loves me, and wants to be only with me etc etc. And I asked really are you lying because you give me such hopes please dont lie and he swore he wasnt lying. Then suddenly when I called his home real late, whish I knew he was home working late that day, he got real upset, said I was checking up on him again. Next thing I know, he said "I broke up with you and you need to understand that", and I said this is contradicting all the things you told me earlier, and he kept saying how he had had as much patience as he could with me but it's over. In the morning he calls to tell me that he said that last night because I started checking up on him again (and he hates that) so he said what was most painful for me so I stop checking on him, and that we will be back together.
So anyways, what am I to believe? Should I throw out all hope that we get together and understand that we really broke up? Which is the truth? Both things were said with so many details and conviction by him, that they both seemed the absolute truth when he said them.
So anyways, what am I to believe? Should I throw out all hope that we get together and understand that we really broke up? Which is the truth? Both things were said with so many details and conviction by him, that they both seemed the absolute truth when he said them.
