did i do the right thing?
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| Fri, 06-03-2005 - 3:55pm |
A couple of years ago, I was a member of a church, the Pastor was single/unmarried. We dated for a while, then the relationship went sour. I ended up leaving the church hurt and bitter. The aftermath was somewhat difficult for both of us. I cut all ties to the church including friendship with a few members I considered to be good friends.
Recently, I ran into them at an event. They still miss and care about me. I was touched.
I called the Pastor. We didn't talk about the past. I asked him if he had any concerns about me returning to the church. He said no, I'm more than welcome.
I attended church on Sunday and his sermon was about gossip. He said that he didn't want members gossiping about him or anyone else. like who he dated, things of the past, etc. He wanted to be sure to nip gossip in the bud ASAP. He said gossip hurts people.
I have a feeling that some members are talking about my return and why i left in the 1st place. I feel that why the pastor sermon was about gossip.
I feel uncomfortable, should I have returned?
| Fri, 06-03-2005 - 7:45pm |
| Sat, 06-04-2005 - 1:03am |
