Did I make the right decision?
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Did I make the right decision?
| Fri, 09-10-2004 - 12:49pm |
Hi, I have made a decision to break up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years. I had become very unhappy for a few reasons. We are young, im 19 and hes 20, We were both in college and both worked. He works as a line cook at a resturant here in Jacksonville, and he has always been happy working and with the job he has now. But I noticed that he continually put his job ahead of everything else, college, me, family, friends everything. He ended up failing 2 of his classes this past semester and now he cant go back until they are offered again. Eventually I got fed up with being put on the back burner for a job, I can handle being put to the side for things like school and things like that but I got tired of trying and trying to work my schedule around his and working things to get time together and he wasnt budgeing or trying at all, so I asked him if he would cut his hours a little bit not by much, and he said that he was happy with the way things were and he didnt want them to change, well I compromised and asked him to try and get mondays off because I alwayas have mondays off, he again said no, from this conversation I got the idea that he was telling me to either deal with things being exactly the way he wanted or leave. So I left. I stood my ground but I guess it doesnt make things any easier, especially knowing that he let a job come between us. I guess id just like a little input. thanks!

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