DID WE BREAKUP?
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DID WE BREAKUP?
| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 1:09pm |
I know this sounds stupid, but I don't know if we broke up or not....My boy lives two hours away, and this summer, he comes up to see me once a week. I hadn't heard from him in a week, so i asked one of his roomates what was up and he told me he thinks that my boy wanted to break up with me. So I called my boy and told him that his friends were telling me that we were broken up, and he should be a man and call me back to confirm or deny this. He called me back the next day and left me a message that said, "I don't know what my friends have been telling you, but you're gonna tell me what was said, and who said it so I can regulate. I'll call you so I can explain. It's not big." So he called me back and I asked him point blank, Do you want to break up with me or not. He said he was sorry for not calling me. He is dealing with some family illnesses right now, and hasn't contacted anyone, not just me. He said that he has just been taking time away from everything to deal with things. He is so worried and needs time to think things thru that are happening with his family....He then said that he'd call me tomorrow. So, he never answered my question. I don't know if he broke up with me, saying he needed time alone. I don't know if we're on a break,and we're gonna see how things are when he works with his fam issues. I don't know if we're still together, but he just can't come up to see me right now. I don't know. If we were broken up period, he wouldn't have said he was going to call me. I wish i could just call him and ask, but he needs his space, so I'm not calling him till he calls me, and that would just seem so trivial to him compared to what's happening at home. HELP!
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| Mon, 08-02-2004 - 9:48pm |
I don't think you broke up since he could have told you so when you questioned him. He just needs space in order to deal with his situation at home. Try to be supportive, maybe give it a few days, then call to see how he's doing.
