DIDN'T SEE THIS COMING

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2007
DIDN'T SEE THIS COMING
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Sun, 10-14-2007 - 8:56pm

Give me your opinion-- I already know the answer but I guess I just want you all to tell me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2006
Sun, 10-14-2007 - 10:54pm

Okay..I can sort of relate to this guy.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 6:52am

So should I give him space and just back off for a bit and just do our Friday Happy Hours with our group of friends like always and just see what happens?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 12:12pm

After reading this post, there are three scenarios for me:


1. I think he doesn't want to get involved seriously, and he was kind enough to let you know that he doesn't want you to have hope on a relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2006
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 5:33pm

I'm thinking it's really a good idea NOT to read between the lines, or try to interpret what he's thinking because he spelled everything out in black and white perfectly.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2007
Thu, 10-18-2007 - 7:39am

Well I went to watch the football game and it was fun. We hung out as a group but he was all flirty as usual. I really just tried to throw myself into group conversation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Sun, 10-21-2007 - 3:38am
The guy wants to casually date you and other women and you don't. It'd be best if you don't hang out with him alone and avoid situations such as the football game night. If he wants to kiss and you want to kiss then kiss, BUT don't expect exclusivity or any other serious thought coming from him. He's laid his cards on the table. Any kind of relationship coming from this deal will be a casual one and/or a FWB kind of deal.