Discovering you've been deceived

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Discovering you've been deceived
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Wed, 10-31-2007 - 10:35am

I had a full on relationship for 9 months from June 2006

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 1:02pm

Welcome to the board betty12007,


Everything you feel is normal.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:21pm

I am sorry that you are going though this.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 10-31-2007 - 2:28pm

Welcome to the board vicki6767,


Sorry you are have gone through the same thing.

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Thu, 11-01-2007 - 11:07pm

Wow, that's harsh. Lucky for you you didn't end up stuck with him, because at this late stage in the game, that guy is never going to change.

You assume they're going to be happy. Just how happy could they possibly ever be with him carousing like that and her knowing full well that he's cheated, is cheating, and will continue to cheat on her, not to mention what a prfessional liar he is? Think about it. She will NEVER know if he is telling the truth. That alone is enough to drive someone crazy. Get out of the part of your head that says you're the one feeling bad and left behind when you've just been released from a potential lifetime of imprisonment with this man!

Also, remember just how desperate and self-loathing a woman has to be in order to accept something like that into her life. Instead of being envious or jealous of what you think she has, or what you think you've lost, allow yourself to feel some empathy for her instead and hope that someday she comes to her senses, because she's about to waste a big part of her life with someone who doesn't deserve any credit. Just think, that poor woman could have been you.

You're definitely the lucky one! No losers for you ;)

Best,

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