Discovering you've been deceived
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Discovering you've been deceived
| Wed, 10-31-2007 - 10:35am |
I had a full on relationship for 9 months from June 2006
| Wed, 10-31-2007 - 10:35am |
I had a full on relationship for 9 months from June 2006
Welcome to the board betty12007,
Everything you feel is normal.
I am sorry that you are going though this.
Welcome to the board vicki6767,
Sorry you are have gone through the same thing.
Wow, that's harsh. Lucky for you you didn't end up stuck with him, because at this late stage in the game, that guy is never going to change.
You assume they're going to be happy. Just how happy could they possibly ever be with him carousing like that and her knowing full well that he's cheated, is cheating, and will continue to cheat on her, not to mention what a prfessional liar he is? Think about it. She will NEVER know if he is telling the truth. That alone is enough to drive someone crazy. Get out of the part of your head that says you're the one feeling bad and left behind when you've just been released from a potential lifetime of imprisonment with this man!
Also, remember just how desperate and self-loathing a woman has to be in order to accept something like that into her life. Instead of being envious or jealous of what you think she has, or what you think you've lost, allow yourself to feel some empathy for her instead and hope that someday she comes to her senses, because she's about to waste a big part of her life with someone who doesn't deserve any credit. Just think, that poor woman could have been you.
You're definitely the lucky one! No losers for you ;)
Best,