Do I call back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2006
Do I call back?
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Fri, 03-17-2006 - 2:37pm

I recently broke the NC after visiting my exes family and mentioning to them that he still had a movie of mine. They brought him up when I was leaving and then of course I couldn't get him out of my head.

So I called him when I was leaving their house and left him a message saying that he still had a movie of mine (which is true, but I can't lie to myself, it was an excuse to call) and that he didn't need to call me back, that I would just have his sister get it for me.

He called me back yesterday and I was strong enough not to answer the phone, but he left a message saying he got my message and that he hoped I am doing good (it has only been 2 weeks since we broke up) and for me to call him or text him with what movie he has so he can try and find it. Then he said again that he hopes I am doing well. I haven't called him back, but am I acting like a coward if I don't call him back? I don't want to torture myself, I know NC is the best, but do I seem like less of an adult if I don't call him back?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-31-2006
Fri, 03-17-2006 - 5:59pm

you know what i'm assuming i am the only person in ivillage that is against NC...coz for me if you love someone you have to fight for it and for me is better to stay with the same person than keeping changing relationship...FOR MY OWN OPINION IN RELATIONSHIP ATLEAST ON OF YOU NEED TO GO DOWN FOR IT TO WORK...AND IT DOESNT MATTER WHO DOES IT ALL THE TIME.

I MEAN THIS IS JUST A FRIENDLY ADVISED IS STILL UP TO YOU..IF U WANT TO CALL HIM RIGHT...BUT IF YOU GUYS ARE BACK AGAIN...JUST BE READY TO TAKE THAT RISK OKAY!! BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR HEART hehehehe like they say!@

good luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-04-2003
Fri, 03-17-2006 - 7:34pm
At this point, do you want the movie back or not? If you don't, then don't call. If you do, text the title to him.


Carrie