do i call him back

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-23-2007
do i call him back
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Tue, 10-23-2007 - 11:02pm

I have been crying and begging my ex to come back to me for a week now, but he just keeps tell me that he has had enough but that he still loves me.


AFter finding this message board and reading a lot of the articles yesterday, i decided that i deserved more respect and i have been humiliating myself by begging him, so i haven't contacted him since yesterday morning.


Well he emailed me this morning, just saying goodmorning....now i am really confused.


I didn't answer the email and just continued working....it was the strongest i have been in a long time.....then all of a sudden my phone buzzed and i had a sms from him telling me that he shouldn't have emailed me and that he was trying to be strong but he was thinking of me all the time?????????


now i am feeling like he has been letting me cry and beg and look like a desperate stupid lady and as soon as i stop he tries to reel me back in again.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 11:10pm

Hi Tina,


Stay strong.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2006
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 1:29am

....."now i am feeling like he has been letting me cry and beg and look like a desperate stupid lady and as soon as i stop he tries to reel me back in again"......

you're right about that, but you forgot one part: "so i can do it all over again and feed his ginormous ego. a-hole."

Stay strong! Do NOT reply under any circumstances, I don't care what he says. He's doing this to mess with your head, and I don't say that often. He's being evil. I never typically say that about anyone, but I get no good feeling from this one. Stay far away from him, he's toxic to you.

Best of luck and keep posting.

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Registered: 07-17-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 11:00am
Hi Tina, like the others have said, stay strong, don't answer him.
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Registered: 10-24-2007
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 2:38pm
I feel like you are telling a story about my life. I'm in the same situation with my Ex-boyfriend.