Do I ever have a shot with her again?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-21-2007
Do I ever have a shot with her again?
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Sun, 09-30-2007 - 2:37pm

Me and my ex have been best friends for 3 years, and we had been dating for 2 years. Two weeks ago, she lost feelings for me because she let another guy in. We honestly thought that we were meant to be. Well, last week, I broke up with her because I wanted her to be happy with this other guy...however...she still wants me to be best friends with her..

What sucks is, she made it official with this guy yesterday and they are doing things what any couple would do. I'm jealous because I still love her, and I'm hurting for the fact that I was wronged in this situation, but I know I have to move on....I just wonder...do I have a shot with her? What should I do to try and move on? What can I do to help heal me?

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 6:12pm

Welcome to the board astrolazy,


It will really be hard to be friends with her as long as you have romantic feelings for her and she's moved on.

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Registered: 04-24-2006
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 8:28pm

Hey, I'm a guy and I'm not following what went down - you're best friends, you both thought you were going to be together, she "let another guy