do i still love you.. really?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
do i still love you.. really?
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Thu, 07-19-2007 - 8:58pm
i've been with a guy for the last two years and we are now in our second break up. every time we break up its the same thing, he hangs out with people he never really did before and goes to bars while still saying he loves me. what i dont understand is if i am the one who breaks up with him then why does it still hurt so much 3 weeks after? right now i feel like i can't live without him, i really want him to be the guy i spend my life with but is this possible? hanging out with friends is not working because they all are haveing problems of their own. i want things to work out so ill be happy, i just dont know if that means him in my life or not. am i still wanting to be with him out of happiness or out of making the hurt stop.... help please
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 07-21-2007 - 1:33am

Welcome to the board sadchaytor,


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