Do men really understand the concept ...

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
Do men really understand the concept ...
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Tue, 11-01-2005 - 4:19pm

Do men really understand the concept of a committed realationship?



  • Yes
  • No
  • Yes, but they dont really want one
  • No, and they need you to help them see


You will not be able to change your vote.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2005
Tue, 11-01-2005 - 7:49pm
It totally depends on the man...can't answer this with a vote
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2003
Tue, 11-01-2005 - 7:51pm

Interesting question...

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"You get what you settle for"...

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2003
Tue, 11-01-2005 - 10:22pm
I think that mature, self-aware men do understand the concept -- that is why so many men will not committ until they are absolutely sure. To them it is huge -- a life changing situation. They may actually have a better grip on it then most women do.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 2:57pm
Well i posted this poll because i wanted to see if other women agree with me and I was right. Men they understand perfectly, all of them are not stupid. They just dont want one. I agree with the last response. I dated a man that was 34 and i am 21 and he treated me very different from my current ex of 22. I really believe that men and relationships totally depends on their age. They have to be ready. Its just sad that so many good women like us have to suffer in the waiting beacuse they didn't know what they wanted yet. Thanks ladies!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 3:38pm
Sorry. I think this quiz is sexist.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
Wed, 11-02-2005 - 3:52pm
Well we all have our own opinion. But one thing you must never do it attack someone verbally. I mean we are on the newly heartbroken page and i dont attack people if even if i think they are wrong or whatever because who am i to judge them or their actions or what they say. We are here to help and to heal, if i can't help then i won't say anything at all. Or maybe just a good luck.....
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2005
Thu, 11-03-2005 - 8:19am
What an odd poll. Such a blanket generalization..of course men understand the concept..why not?? Odd..sorry..
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2005
Fri, 11-04-2005 - 8:25am
Are you serious? why not? Because of the thousands of women who have to suffer through heartbreak after heartbreak. For those women who are ready for a good man and ready to settle down and the man isn't. And then he leads you on thinking that he is until he gets tired of you. And the other many reasons why men won't commit. That's why i posted this poll. Please,