Do some guys do this?

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Registered: 01-20-2005
Do some guys do this?
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Thu, 03-17-2005 - 7:59am

Do you think some guys are too scared to break up with you so they try and get you to dump them so he doesn't feel like the jerk? (Especially if his friends and family love you?)

Like if you were dating someone for a while and slowly things started going downhill-they start treating you like crap, pick fights/arguments with you, stop having sex and being affectionate towards you. Basically make the bare minimum effort to call you or see you, and then tell you nothing's wrong even though they're acting that way?

Just curious.
-Mia

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Registered: 10-25-2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 8:24am
Of course they do! They don't want to look like the "bad guy," breaking up with you. So instead, they get to look like the bad guy by treating you like crap. I have seen it soooo many times. Don't put up with it. Dump him fast!!! You deserve a guy with some diginity and respect for himself. He is not worth it.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 10:21am

I say who cares if he says nothing's wrong? Break up with him anyway, not matter if you think he's trying to get you to break up or not. He should have some respect for YOU, never mind for himself!

He is not treating you well, the relationship is no longer what you'd like it to be, time to move on. You deserve better than this.