Do you ever think about...?
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Do you ever think about...?
| Mon, 05-15-2006 - 10:56am |
Let me preface this by saying that although my heart and my mind may not always be agreeing, I am not planning on acting on any impulses but today is one of those roller coaster days and I was wondering....has anyone ever thought of, or has acted on, getting closure or suggesting counseling with their ex? I know that I have my own issues I am working through, I have been reading, seeking counseling, posting and reading on these boards..;)..I just can't help thinking that if after a couple months or so if you thought of contacting your ex to talk about your past relationship or is the point lost? And I know, if they really wanted to attempt something with you they would contact you, but I was wondering that even after rationally knowing that, if anyone has thought of bringing the subject up to them or even knowing that its pretty much a lost cause if you have thought of trying to speak to them anyway...I know I am pretty much beating a dead horse right now but I can't help to have all these thoughts running through my mind and I was curious to see if I was the only one or what....

I do feel the hurt and pain behind your question.
It won't do any good...but if you feel you have to have your say in order to move on, then get it overwith, the sooner the better, so you can move forward. But recognize that having that contact will set you back.
Sheri