Do you guys ask questions
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Do you guys ask questions
| Tue, 06-20-2006 - 9:53am |
I have been having so many questions throughout the whole relationship of 1 year and this week of NC. I ask myself why he has been treating me this way, what does his behavior tell me? Why did this happen to me? Just so many "what ifs" and so many "why's". I can never seem to find an answer for myself and I just keep asking myself. I wish I could know all the answers but I know that's impossible.
Are you guys experiencing the same thing? How do you deal with it?

Oh my gosh. Yeah, definitely you have to stay away from this guy. He doesn't respect you. It seems that he is angry, but that's no excuse for his hurtful words. And how can he dare to accuse you when he is treating you unfairly. A good time apart is a good idea I think.
Yeah, you said it right on the point. I have been begging for the whole universe for answers too. But I'll never get it. At least now, I just don't understand, I can't find the wisdom to understand it all. My therapist said he is not capable of giving me an answer. I don't know, I am sick of analyzing the whole situation, and yet, can't stop wondering why.
A friend told me relationships make women become more mature and independent. I think it's very true. It's a necessary phrase in my life that I have to experience.
Maybe be a year from now (hopefully shorter), you and I can both have more insights to this situation/or too sick to even mention about it. Don't you agree?
I think that the idea that we start asking these kinds of questions is our internal voice telling us that something isn't right. I think we tune into what we perceive to be "normal" for us, and when that "normal" feels distorted, we start to question.
I think of these questions as being a form of a "counselor"... a counselor should ask you the questions that we have to answer for ourselves...
I also believe that relationships make us smarter/more mature. They give us insights as to what we want or don't want in our lives.
Jim
I am going through the exact same thing. I got an email from my guy, ending things with me because he is dating someone else. I didn't get to ask him anything or say anything to him regarding our breakup. Now, I am just driving myself crazy with all of the Whys. (By the guy, that guy is in the Navy and is stationed in Spain.)
Shelly/20/TX
hi ivil crystals
yap too many ?????? no answer. well i resently contact my exbf for 2mths of no contact at all...well everything turn okay...he didnt give me attitude.
actually i have too many question too...why this always happen to us ladys if we are totally in to them and they will turn their back to us???? why???
i guess its true what they say about relationship its better that you dont show your love all the way...coz they get drown.