Do you think this will make him want me.

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Registered: 06-30-2006
Do you think this will make him want me.
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Thu, 07-27-2006 - 1:26pm

to be with me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You mean the world to me and I would do anything for you
You bring me up when Im down and make me smile when things are the worst
You are the best for makin me happy sometimes i dotn kno what I would do without you
When I see you ...you brighten my day rather we have just had teh biggest arguement or the sweetest conversation
I want you to kno that no matter how many times I say I dont want to talk to you I dotn want to be with you that I cant stand you that I want you out of my llife taht I am lying you will always have a place in my heart no matter what happens I will always love you you are my everything without you I do kno what i woudl do with myself I just wanted to make sure that u kno that I will LOVE YOU FOREVER

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Registered: 06-10-2003
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 1:54pm

What's your situation- as in broken up, who broke up with who, etc.? What's the occasion to send this?

(Sorry, I automatically thought of the Commodores when I read "you bring me up when I'm down", ha.)

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Registered: 06-05-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 1:58pm
Did this guy break up with you? Why would you feel the need to give him this message? If you two have broken up you do NOT need to give him that message ESPECIALLY if he broke up with you. If he broke up with you he most likely won't care what you have to say. I know you may truly feel like you would do anything for him, however by telling him you put him in a position of control. You would make him feel like "Wow! This chick is really hung up on me bad! Listen to how pathetic she sounds!" You don't want to actually give him that satisfaction do you?
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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 1:59pm
HAHA......ok well we have been having sex for 6 months now and i recently told him that I had feelings for him and he said he liked me and all he just wasnt sure! so I think that i if tell him how i truely feel he will understand how much i really do love him
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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:03pm
Of coruse not but thats not the situation as I said b4 we have been "together" as in sex for 6 months now and i told him I had feelings for him and he said he liked me and all he just wasnt sure so im thinkin if i do tell him this and exactly how I fell he will realize that I love him alot
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Registered: 06-05-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:07pm
You can tell him how you really feel but be careful. You can never MAKE a person want you. It is his choice. If said he is not sure it means he is not into you enough to take that step. That is a RED FLAG! When a guy is really into someone he will stop at nothing to let that person know. He won't say, "I'm not sure." Don't you want to be with someone who will love you the same way and reciprocate your feelings?
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Registered: 06-30-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:10pm
He told me that he loved me not long ago!
I think that were meant to be together and Its wasnt like uh im not sure I got to go bye it was like I like you but i work all time and It would kill me not to see u everyday
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Registered: 06-05-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:16pm
Cool! All you can do is tell him and see what he thinks.
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Registered: 02-09-2006
Thu, 07-27-2006 - 2:45pm

IMO this letter isn't going to do anything except maybe scare him. If he knows you love him and he's actually said I love you, then I can't see how the letter will change anything.

If you want to show him how good the two of you are together then show him by not saying things like "I can't stand you". I think actions speak louder than words...even written words.

Kathy

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 1:49am

Just leave it alone.

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Fri, 07-28-2006 - 9:43pm

My ex once jumped a train from Washington D.C. at 10:00 p.m. on a Wednesday because he realized that he couldn't wait until the following Monday to see me (we were long distance, I live in Philly). Talk about me feeling like the luckiest girl on earth! The following Monday - the one he couldn't wait for - he gave me a list of reasons why he didn't want to be with me anymore. It was just like that. He rolled out of bed one morning and claims that the "magic died". I sent him emails, telling him how I felt about him. He never answered which made me more sad and I started acting a bit nutty which I know drove him away even more. Bottom line is he's a jerk and what I am missing is who I thought he was.

I don't know what your situation is, but take the time to think the letter through before sending it. For some reason, when guys send letters of love it's romantic, but when a girl does it, she's nothing but a desperate psycho. How do you think he'll react? Never mind what us girls think.

Good luck.

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