does the communication completely end?

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-11-2007
does the communication completely end?
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Tue, 02-13-2007 - 2:02pm
we broke up on sunday. after an entire year. is it normal that he hasnt called? does it mean he doesnt care? i know we shouldnt be together but it doesnt mean that I dont care so why does it seem like he doesnt care... :o(
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 3:26pm
Hi hoplessromantic, not everyone can call to say hi and see how the other person is. For some people it's too painful. Others think that it breeds false hope that things might change.
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Registered: 11-03-2006
Tue, 02-13-2007 - 9:17pm

Hi hopelessromantic,
I am in a similar situation, where the person I thought cared, just stopped it one fine day. And that also no explanation, nothing. Just went from a caring person to the opposite.

All I can say is - it is possible that it is their way of dealing with it, one thing is they dont want to give any false hopes. And you probably don't want to hear this but if he initiated the break up, he probably has stopped thinking of you 24/7. So the truth is hard, but suddenly he has other priorities and he probably wants his single life back. And I am sure he probably wishes you best but that totally loving feeling that makes a person really really care, is probably not there anymore.

Not sure if I helped. I am hurting too everyday since you start to think how could somebody just stop the caring. But maybe this is the way to get over someone..'cold turkey' dont try to be friends immediately is what I hear. Good luck to you!