does he really mean its over????

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2008
does he really mean its over????
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Thu, 03-20-2008 - 8:58pm

I've been with him for almost 8 months. we met working and started hanging out. one thing lead to another then the rest is history. he showed me so much and I enjoyed every second of his company. after a month of dating he invites me to move in. so I did. I know that was my first mistake because we jumped in it to fast. long story short he sent a girl from work a message that upset me, maybe a little to much. I packed my things and left to my parents house which is all the way in new jersey and hes in Miami. I miss him so

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 9:43pm

Your right about one main point....... You moved in way to quickly.


I think what happens when two people move this fast is, you eventually come upon a situation where the lightening speed you were traveling finally hits a surface that it can't pass through and the whole thing

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 9:49pm

Welcome to the board hopeful186,


Was the message to his coworker inappropriate?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 4:54pm
well im
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2003
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 5:09pm
sounds like you need to give him space. when hes ready to talk, then that's your chance to be honest and use this time to think about a solution to fix whats broken.