doing really bad today

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doing really bad today
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Sat, 11-24-2007 - 4:45pm

Weekends are the hardest.

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Registered: 05-12-2003
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 10:19am
Anybody out there????
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Registered: 11-23-2007
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 12:07pm
That clearly sucks... but its a good thing you are trying to get ur social life back, right?
What about this, what if, you try to expand your social circle, get to now new people, go to different places... maybe take a class or join a club.
Keep in contact with your best friend but explain her the things that might make you relapse and without shutting her out of your life, try to expand your horizons. I mean, she is your friend and she will understand that in order to get back on your feet you need to avoid situations that make you feel bad.
xxx Emilia
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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 2:03pm
Welcome to the board Emilia and thanks for participating.





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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 2:22pm

Hi safara2002,


As long as you compare your life to his (assuming he's having the time of his life) you will always feel bad.

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Registered: 05-12-2003
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 10:19pm

Oh Carrie thanks for the post.

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Registered: 09-28-2007
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 10:45pm

i'm sorry :(


the weekends are truly sucky. but just try to keep making plans and being as busy as possible. you'll still think about him, but as time goes on, it'll become impossible to think abotu him all the time if you have other things on your mind.


can you hang out with your buddies maybe 1 or 2 at a time, not in a group setting when it could get all complicated?


congrats on the 10 days. keep up the no contact.

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Registered: 05-12-2003
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 11:11pm
Yes I guess it will have to be that way for awhile.
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Registered: 09-28-2007
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 11:28pm
yeah, it's a big pain in the butt :( but they're your best friends, so i'm sure they'll understand
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Registered: 11-13-2007
Mon, 11-26-2007 - 3:49pm

Hi,


Im not doing so good today either, my ex-bf or whatever he is just got back home from holidays with his ex wife and ex in laws and his kids....he never called....he sent me a text mess...he got in last nite...has been working all day...wont return my call...he promised he would call today....I finally reached him...he seemed happy but distant like he really did not want to talk to me....but tried....He said he talk to me later.....this started out as a break and has become a break up and its really killing me , I hate feeling this way.

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 2:05pm

Try this great article:

Getting Over A Break Up or Divorce: How To Mourn, Heal, and Move On
http://www.hearts-and-kisses.com/relationshipadvice-getting-over-a-breakup.html