don't do what i did

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2007
don't do what i did
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Tue, 01-30-2007 - 2:28pm
What ever you do,please,please do not "check" on your Ex.I thought i was strong enough after 3 weeks of NC,And i bit me in the you know what.I found out he is on a dating website,it about crushed me.He can go on & here i am having a "pity party" well no more! I am so sick of feeling like this!arg! Thanks for reading this.

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Registered: 12-23-2006
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 12:53pm


itwinflame,

you write some of the best posts around here!! hugs!! cheered me up in an instant!

this analogy made me laugh and remind me of the three little pigs.

but out of curiosity, is there really anything like "dealing" with your emotions/?? i mean we girls definitely do it so well. and the guys, well they forget!! so is it really true that *one day* they wake up , realise what a greatthing they gave up and come back?? or is it just something we girls like to tell ourselves....when the guys have moved on in a minute and are having the time of their lives...

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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 02-01-2007 - 12:57pm
Some people never address their issues. Some people do, but keep things status quo. Some do and make good changes in their life. I think that some people know when they have lost something good, but aren't willing to do anything about it. Anyone that moves on before doing their homework (dealing with their issues) those issues will come up again in the next relationship, at some point.


Carrie

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