dont know what to do

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2005
dont know what to do
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Thu, 03-20-2008 - 12:33pm
Here is my situation.




 


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 03-20-2008 - 10:17pm

Welcome to the board biojester,


Well you hold all the cards, so if going to counseling, AA and Anger Management are conditions of coming back, stick to your guns.

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Registered: 03-17-2008
Fri, 03-21-2008 - 3:40am

I'm sorry to hear that. I'm really sorry to hear that.

I think it's very admirable what you did. One of my best friends didn't, she kept giving him chance after chance. Then she got pregnant again, with twins. And he's still the same old jerk. Except now she's got 3 kids to feed. And He wouldn't give her $ for diapers unless she let him move back too! I think that's how they manipulate their way back in.

You seem like you have a really good head on your shoulders. Definitely don't take him back if you don't see a genuine change yet. I hope he does realize what's really important, but most guys who swore they'd change 200 times, usually don't. And he sounds kind of immature, calling you at work? I used to do that to my mom when I was 10. I don't know, I just think bothering someone at work is absolutely unacceptable, because I would never even consider jeopardizing their job or making them stressed out at work.

I hope you're feeling better. Stay strong, your son has one weak parent, but he's really lucky he has you.

"Wherever you go, go with all your heart." -Confucius

"Wherever you go, go with all your heart." -Confucius