Don't know what to do...

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-17-2007
Don't know what to do...
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Sun, 06-17-2007 - 2:46pm
My boyfriend of 1 yr and a half broke up almost 4 months ago but then after 5 weeks of no contact he called and said he loved me and missed me and stuff so I went back for 3 days and it was like nothing had happened and then one day he said we had to stop cause I would get hurt in the end which it was too late for that. A few weeks ago I got into a car accident and wrote off my car and I was hoping he would call to see if I was ok since it is kind of a big deal and he never called so about a week ago I e-mailed him and said I was dissapointed that he never called and that I was depressed and stuff. He called me last weekend but I was at a concert and never heard my phone but he left a mssg saying he heard about it and he hoped I was okay and that was it I know the only reason he called was because I pretty much asked him too but then the next day I found out he has a new girlfriend which hit me like a ton of bricks and now I feel like an idiot for telling him that i'm still not okay. I feel so depressed and lonely like i'll never find anyone! I need help getting through this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2006
Mon, 06-18-2007 - 10:27am
I read your post and feel for what you are going through...I have gone through something similar and it is difficult to get one's hopes up and then incur another fall...For me, no contact has been the best advice...although difficult at first, it does get easier with time...Also, try to connect with old friends or find some new ones who are single...there are alot of singles' groups & events where you might find some new friends to do things with...Also reconnect with hobbies & things you haven't had time for...and reconnect with faith if this has been a source of comfort for you...Take care & hope this helps...