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Don't know what to do
| Fri, 05-13-2005 - 4:44pm |
Hey y'all. This is my first time here and I am just looking for advice on what to do. A little run down: Dan and I went out for six months, I have known him for almost two years, I will be a juinior in college next year and he is graduating from college so he will be starting his new life. Okay so a week ago he tells me that he may be going to Texas to get experience at his friends Dads insurance company. He also tells me that he wants to start his new life/career without a girlfriend because he wants to be able to focus on just that instead of wishing he could be with me all the time. He says that he wouldn't be able to give me the attention I deserve. I would be able to understand that though because my summer job is very demanding. He says that he wants to take a break for the summer. I told him what if I'm not waiting around for him, he said then thats the way it is. So this break of ours has nothing to do with me at all or anything I've done cuz when we talked a few days ago he made that clear. I asked him if he wanted to have the freedom to do what he wants without having any strings attached and he said yeah basically. He said that doing this feels like the right thing to do. It's just really difficult to deal with him not being in my life. I could see myself marrying this guy. Some may say I'm too young to think of this but it just feels so right. I know that he has a lot of growing up to do, as do I. So I'm wondering how do I let this go, do I wait for him, do I try to talk to him cuz he says he still wants to be friends. I am totally at a loss for what to do or think. Thank you for listening and responding!

swagamoo...
If Dan is honest enough to tell you that he doesn't want a woman in his life as he begins his new career....CONSIDER YOURSELF LUCKY!